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A PUBLICATION OF THE FLAGLER COUNTY INTERGROUP

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January/February 2005   (SPECIAL- PDA SIZED MEETING SCHEDULE)

Palm Coast, FL

Celebration Time! I
Bunnell Group

Celebrating in January
Jim      “M”        THIRTY-FOUR YEARS!                        

John    "H"         FOUR YEARS! 
                                                                       

Came To Believe
Celebrating in January                                                

Wayne  “M”            SEVEN YEARS!           
Celebrating in February
Larry     “P”            TWENTY-SIX YEARS!

                                                                       

Footprints In The Sand
Celebrating in January                                    

Kevin                FIFTEEN YEARS!   

Jim                   THIRTY-FOUR YEARS! 

Anne                 EIGHTEEN YEARS!                             

Bill                    TWENTY-ONE YEARS!                         

Celebrating in February
Frank                TWENTY-FOUR YEARS!
Bill                    TWENTY-SIX YEARS!

                                                                       

Happy Wanderers
Celebrating in January                                                            

Ron      “R”            TWENTY YEARS!

Jill        “W”            TWO YEARS!
Celebrating in February
Bill        “B”            THIRTY-SIX YEARS!                        

Guy      “L”             NINETEEN YEARS!

Guys & Dolls
Celebrating in January

Linda    M”             THREE YEARS!
                                                                       

Jump Start
Celebrating in February                                                                      

Paul       “O”            SIX YEARS!
                                                                       

Living Sober
Celebrating in January                                                            

Arnold   “P”            NINETEEN YEARS!                   

Betty    “D”            SEVENTEEN YEARS!
                                   

Message Group
Celebrating in January
John     “H”            SEVEN YEARS!

Mary     “N”            TWO YEARS!                                   

Lucy     “L”            ONE YEARS!   
Celebrating in February
Lisa      “G”            ONE YEARS!   

 

Nomad Group                                                             

Celebrating in January
Jim       “M”            THIRTY-FOUR YEARS! 

John     “H”             FOUR YEARS!
Celebrating in February
Dan      “W”            THIRTY YEARS!
Jim       “A”             TWENTY YEARS!

Guy      “L”              NINETEEN YEARS!
                                                                       

T.G.I.F
Celebrating in January
Bill        “G”           TWENTY-SIX YEARS!
Clarice  “W”           TWENTY-FOUR YEARS!
Peg      “Y”            TWELVE YEARS!
Sue      “E”            ELEVEN YEARS!
Bill        “M”           FOUR YEARS!
Mary     “S”            TWO YEARS!
Lucy     “L”             ONE YEARS!   
Celebrating in February
Dan      “W”            THIRTY YEARS!
John     “H”            THREE YEARS!
Beryl     “N”            TWO YEARS!
Gladys  “H”            TWO YEARS!

                                               

Women To Women
Celebrating in January

Ingrid    “T”            TWELVE YEARS!
Celebrating in February
Lisa      “P”            FIVE YEARS!

Special Congratulations to Lisa “G” and
Lucy “L” for one whole year of sobriety!!

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just as before....

______________________________

PROMISE

“Our whole attitude and outlook on life will change”

When I came into A. A. I was a judgmental, self-centered, depressed person with low self-esteem.

Slowly my attitude towards other people changed. I began to let others grow at their own rate. I began to allow people to have opinions different from mine. I began to examine other people’s points of view.

Even more slowly did my attitude toward myself change. With much help from my sponsor I began to see a good person in the mirror. I began to forgive myself for my past behavior. My sponsor explained my old behavior as that of an alcoholic. He said it did not represent the real me. He could see the new me evolving even though I could not. I now don't beat up on myself very often.

As I began to grow, my outlook on the world changed. I began to see the beauty of the world around me. We live in a beautiful paradise, which I was too blind to see. I was looking at the world through an alcoholic cloud.

I continued to work on my conscious constant with God and began to carry the message to other alcoholics. I then had a profound personality change. This change took 5 years. Since that time I have had 12 years of a reasonably happy life. I have had my share of personal and family crises. In spite of these temporary disappointments I have continued to work the program and have not had to pick up a drink.

Anonymously submitted
Lucky To Be Here Group.


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1-Men & women interested in bringing a meeting to The Jail, please contact Dianna “G” 439-9048. 


 2-To Groups electing new Secretaries for 2005-6 please pass Peter Flaherty’s phone number (446-8801) or E-mail address (peterf@pcfl.net) on to the incoming Secretary to insure your Group’s celebrants info will get published in “The Promises”.

 

 3-For those GSRs elected for 2005-6, please attend the January District Meeting (last Monday of the month, 6:30  PM at The Hospital) to get registered & arrange for The District 22 Business Meeting minutes to reach your Group.

 

  4-Jump Start Friday AM meeting, at The Hospital, needs support. It is dangerously close to folding.

 

  5-District 22 Workshop,  1/22/05 1:00P.M. Palm Coast Community Center,  
 Topic The Gift of service,  Facilitator Michael “S” Area 14 Delegate.
 Please bring a dessert

 

 6-InterGroup Meeting 1st Monday of the month 7:00 PM.
 GSR Meeting (District22) last Monday of the month. 6:30 PM.

 Meetings are at the Hospital.
 

Calendar
January 3 – Intergroup Meeting.    7:00 pm Hospital
Jan 7-9, 2005. Area Assembly
January 22 – District 22 Workshop. 1:00 pm
Palm Coast Community Center “The Gift of Service” Michael S, Area 14 Delegate, is facilitator.  Please bring a dessert.
January 31 – GSR Meeting. 6:30 pm Hospital. GSRs elected for 2005, be sure to attend!
February 12-13 – Home Show.  Volunteers to work the booth needed.
 
February 19 – Dinner Dance.   5 – 10 pm VFW, Gary G will chair, as Bob H. cannot do it this year.  Menu will be  Chicken Parmesan, Baked Ziti, Salad, Dessert, coffee and/or tea.         The ticket price will be $12 .
Did you know?
There is a major difference between attempting to control people and actually helping people.
Most people miss Opportunity because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work. (Thomas Edison)
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
 
MEMO FROM GOD  (forwarded by Jane L)
Effective immediately, please be aware that there are changes you need to make in your life. These changes need to be completed in order that I may fulfill my promises to you to grant you peace, joy and happiness in this life. I apologize for any inconvenience but this seems very little to ask of you.  I know, I already gave you the 10 Commandments. Keep them. But follow these guidelines, also.
1. QUIT WORRYING
Life has dealt you a blow and all you do is sit and worry.   Have you forgotten that I am here to take all your burdens and carry them for you? Or do you just enjoy fretting over every little thing that comes your way?
2. PUT IT ON THE LIST
Something needs done or taken care of. Put it on the list. No, not YOUR list. Put it on MY list. Let ME be the one to take care of the problem. I can't help you until you turn it over to me. And although my list is long, I am, after all, God.  I take care of a lot of things for you that you never even realize.
3. TRUST ME
Once you've given your burdens to me, quit trying to take them back.   Have the faith that I will take care of all your needs, your problems and your trials.  Problems with the kids, problem with finances, problems with your emotional roller coaster?  For my sake, put it on my list.
4. LEAVE IT ALONE
Don't wake up one morning and say,  "Well, I'm feeling much stronger now, I think I can handle it from here." Why do you think you are feeling stronger now? It's simple -  you gave me your burdens and I'm taking care of them.  I renew your strength and cover you in my peace.  If I give you these problems back, you will be right back where you started.  Leave them with me and forget about them.  Just let me do my job.
5. TALK TO ME
I want you to forget a lot of things  - what was making you crazy, the worry and the fretting - because you know I'm in control.  But never forget to talk to me - OFTEN!  I love you. I want to hear your voice.  I want you to include me in on the things going on in your life.  I want to hear you talk about your friends and family. Prayer is simply you having a conversation with me. I want to be your dearest friend.
 6. HAVE  FAITH
I see a lot of things from up here that you can't see from where you are. Have faith in me that I know what I'm doing. Trust me, you wouldn't want the view from my eyes. I will continue to care for you, watch over you, and meet your needs.  Although I have a much bigger task than you, it seems as if you have so much trouble just doing your simple part. How hard can faith be?
7. SHARE
You were taught to share when you were only two years old. When did you forget? That rule still applies. Share with those who are less fortunate than you. Share your joy with those who need encouragement. Share your laughter with those who haven't heard any in such a long time. Share your tears with those who have forgotten how to cry. Share your faith with those who have none.
8. BE PATIENT
I managed to fix it so in just one lifetime you could have so many diverse experiences. You grow from a child to an adult, have children, change jobs, learn  trades, travel to  many places, meet thousands of people, and experience so much. How can you be so impatient then when it takes me a little longer than you expect to handle something on my to-do-list? Trust in my timing, for my timing is perfect. Just because I created the entire universe in only six days, everyone thinks I should always rush, rush, rush.
9. BE KIND
Be kind to others, for I love them just as much as I love you. They may not dress like you or talk like you or live the same way you do, but I still love you all. Please try to get along, for my sake. I created each of you different in some way. It would be too boring if you were all identical. Please know I love each of your differences.

 

10. LOVE YOURSELF
As much as I love you, how can you not love yourself? You were created by me to be loved and to love in return. I am a God of Love. Love me. Love your neighbors. But also love yourself. It makes my heart ache when I see you so angry with yourself when things go wrong. You are very precious to me. Don't ever forget that!
                                      GOD
Dependent on Something
It seems that we, through guilt or fault, boredom or excitement, pain or pleasure, seem to think or believe that we need something.
Something is a versatile word.  It could be this or that and yet, whatever it is, it is the same - something.
Now, in the realm of things both real and imagined, we decipher what is truth and what is not, and we deal with it with something.  Be it a smoke or drink or drug or tantrum, we find a release, an escape, another something.  We run with our feet in our hands, heart and mouth and find ourselves searching for something.
Well, I say, “Let that something be air.”  Imagine that you are dependent on air.  This should be easy because you are.  Sneak some air when no one is looking.  At a party, take all the air you want.  In a stressful situation, give yourself a moment to suck some air and help ease the tension you are feeling.  Air can serve as a natural relaxant while providing your body with the oxygen that is essential to good health.  So let air be your vice and, in a matters of moments, you might just become addicted.  (Bob S.) 
Group secretaries!  Peter F is compiling the birthday lists.  Please notify him of March and April  birthdays.  Email him at peterf@pcfl.net or call him at 446-8801. Other e-mail: Newsletter@ThePromises.info
Gratitude List 
*I am grateful to have what peace is in my life
*I am grateful of my courage to make drastic decisions that affect my life
*I am grateful that I can be proud of who I am
*I am grateful to be able to get to AA meetings
*I am grateful that I have God in my life today
*I am grateful that I am able to cry and it is okay
*I am grateful that I have help to overcome depression
*I am grateful that I can feel humility
*I am grateful that I have the warmth of a home to live in
*I am grateful that I can get angry but learn to deal with my feelings
*I am grateful that I have been given a new outlook on life
*I am grateful that I can still love
*I am grateful that it’s okay not to understand right away
*I am grateful I can still laugh
*I’m not grateful when I feel pain but am grateful that I can deal with it
*I’m grateful for my higher power
*I’m grateful for my sponsor
*I’m grateful I have healthy children
*I’m grateful that God puts obstacles in my life that make me challenge my knowledge
*I am grateful that I can give and not expect in return
I am grateful that I can now accept help from others
*I am grateful that I can feel guilty when I should
*I will be grateful when I can learn to become completely humble                     Michelle C.
For free (to Intergroup member groups) AA literature , chips and free medallions, contact  Jerry K. by emailing JerryK@ThePromises.info before the end of each month.  

 

 

 

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