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Story by David H. My children left home soon as they were of age to get away from me. My wife was in the process of leaving, she had finally had it. My job was in jeopardy. In other words, I was losing it all. The unbearable fear of being alone in the world, and frustration of not being able to stop drinking, led me to, in my opinion, the lowest bottom you can have, suicide. A failed attempt, then after Baker-acted, God led me to Alcoholics Anonymous. After the first meeting I saw there was hope. I could live a life without alcohol, and I didn't have to be alone anymore. At my first meeting, If I would have heard someone share about how when they drank they desired cocaine or other drugs, would I be here today? Alcoholic's lives are at stake. I know it's a selfish program, but please respect the rooms you are so grateful for. The rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous. ********************************* The Twelve Concepts (Short Form) Concept 7: The Conference recognizes that the Charter and the Bylaws of the General Service Board are legal instruments: that the Trustees are thereby fully empowered to manage and conduct all of the world service affairs of Alcoholics Anonymous. It is further understood that the Conference charter itself is not a legal document: that it relies instead upon the force of tradition and the power of the A.A. purse for its final effectiveness. - AA Service Manual, pg. 29 ************************************* Group Treasurers please send contributions to:
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name, registration number & District 22 What
happened or is happening? What happened? We hear a lot of ideas, opinions and excuses as to what happened but things are not improving. They continue to get worse. What is happening?
Bill W. wrote, "In the years ahead A.A.
will, of course, make mistakes. Experience has taught us that we
need have no fear of doing this, providing that we always remain
willing to admit our faults and to correct them promptly. Our growth as
individuals has depended upon this healthy process of trial and error.
So will our growth as a fellowship. Let us always remember that any society
of men and women that cannot freely correct its own faults must surely fall
into decay if not into collapse. Such is the universal penalty for the
failure to go on growing. Just as each A.A. must continue to take his moral
inventory and act upon it, so must our whole Society if we are to survive and if
we are to serve usefully and well." (A.A. Comes of Age, Pg. 231) Having been around for a few years, and reflecting on what Bob Bacon had to say, it would appear that we have permitted newcomers to convince the old-timers that they have a better idea. They had just spent 30 or more days in a treatment facility where they had been impressed with the need to talk about their problems in Group Therapy Sessions. They had been told that it didn't make any difference what their real problem was; A.A. had the "best program". They were told that they should go to an A.A. meeting every day for the 1st 90 days out of treatment. They were told that they shouldn't make any major decisions for the 1st year of their sobriety. And what they were told goes on and on, most of which are contrary to the Program of Alcoholics Anonymous! Apparently, what they were told sounded pretty good to the A.A. members who were here when the TC clients started showing up at our meetings. And a lot of the A.A. members liked the idea of the treatment centers because the centers provided a place where they could drop off a serious drinker, if he/she had insurance. That eliminated some of the inconveniences we had been plagued with before; having to pour orange juice and honey or a shot of booze down a vibrating alky to help them "detox". |
When A.A. was very successful, the folks who did the talking in meetings were recovered alcoholics. The suffering and untreated alcoholics listened. After hearing what it takes to recover, the newcomer was faced with a decision; "Are you going to take the Steps and recover or are you going to get back out there and finish the job?" If they said they "were willing to go to any length", they were given a sponsor, a Big Book
and began the process of recovery by taking the Steps and
experiencing the Promises that result from that course of action.
This process kept the newcomer involved in working with others and
continued the growth of our Fellowship. There have always been a few groups that would not yield to the group therapy trend. They stayed firm to their commitment to try to carry a single message to the suffering alcoholic. That is to tell the newcomer "we have had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps and if you want to recover, we will see that you have a sponsor who has recovered
and will lead you along the path the 1st The real problem is that the members of
Alcoholics Anonymous, who were here when the
"clients" began coming to our Fellowship did not help the
"clients" understand that our Program had been firmly
established since April 1939, and that the guidelines for the
preservation and growth of our Fellowship were adopted in 1950.
That they must get rid of their new "old ideas" and start
practicing the Twelve Step Program of Alcoholics Anonymous as it was given
to us. That until they had taken the Steps and recovered, they had So there we are. We have had 30 years of
unbelievable success by following the directions in the Big Book.
We have had 30 years of disappointing failure by wanting to hear
from everyone. We now have something to compare. |
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