The Promises
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Step Five: Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. 

5th STEP Prayer

God I thank you from the bottom of my heart that I know you better. Help me become aware of anything I have omitted discussing with another person. Help me to do what is necessary to walk a free man at last. AMEN
(p. 75 BB)
 

A QUICK NOTE—there are several versions of these step prayers that float around. You may have been given a copy by your sponsor at sometime. Some versions claim to be "from the BIG BOOK". The problem is some are written in the Big Book "Alcoholics Anonymous" or in the "Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions", and others are only inspired by or derived from what is in these books. To avoid confusion, what is in the Big Book (BB) or Twelve & Twelve (12&12), I'll put quote marks around, the others I'll either give page numbers from which the inspiration may have come, or quote that page first.]



 

LET GO

To LET GO does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.
To LET GO
is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another.
To LET GO
is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To LET GO
is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To LET GO
is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.
To LET GO
is not to care for, but to care about.
To LET GO
is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To LET GO
is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
To LET GO
is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality.
To LET GO
is not to deny, but to accept.
To LET GO
is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.|
To LET GO
is to fear less, and love more.
--Anonymous

MYSTERY QUESTION:  

Where do you find the suggestion to do a review of your day at the end of your day? 

“When we retire at night, we constructively review our day.  Were we resentful, selfish, dishonest or afraid?  Do we owe an apology?  Have we kept something to ourselves which should be discussed with another person at once?  Were we kind and loving toward all?  What could we have done better?  Were we thinking of ourselves most of the time?  Or were we thinking of what we could do for others, of what we could pack into the stream of life?  But we must be careful not to drift into worry, remorse or morbid reflection, for that would diminish our usefulness to others.  After making our review we ask God’s forgiveness and inquire what corrective measures should be taken.”

ANSWER IN NEXT ISSUE OF “THE PROMISES

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TRADITION THREE: The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking.

"Why did A.A. finally drop all its membership regulations? Why did we leave it to each newcomer to decide himself whether he was an alcoholic and whether he should join us? Why did we dare to say, contrary to the experience of society and government everywhere, that we would neither punish nor deprive any A.A. of membership, that we must never compel anyone to pay anything, believe anything, or conform to anything?...
"Who dared to be judge, jury, and executioner of his own sick brother?"

1952, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, page 141

Submitted by Jennifer D. 

                                           This is good!

The Invisible Line

From Redwood City, California 

THIS IS ABOUT the idea “Don’t quit five minutes before the miracle”. 

            We in AA talk about crossing the invisible line into our alcoholism.  What about crossing the invisible line into the program of Alcoholics Anonymous? 

                In my first year of sobriety, I fought to stay sober.  It was the hardest thing in my life.  I had so many new feelings.  And what do you do when you know nothing else but to drink?  I went to meetings and shared my feelings.  There were days when I’d feel okay, and then the next day I’d want to drink. 

            Then, a year into my sobriety, the miracle happened.  I was sitting in a meeting, and I said to myself, “Oh my God, I

 

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