November/December  2005
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The3rd Quarter WORKSHOP was a HUGE success with over 50 people attending. Thanx to The Women to Women Group for hosting & Tom "G" for facilitating on "The Basics, Steps 1,2,3".   

SUPPORT:  The Grapevine Meeting Tuesday nite at Beverly Beach can use some support.  Check it out!!! 

                    ANNIVERSARIES

A New Beginning Group(18)

November                                December
Bob R              2 yrs                Allen G            2 yrs

Celebrate last Friday of the month
 

The Bunnell Group(?)
October
belated:    Kevin     1 year
November
                                December

Jack W.             8 yrs              Jerry K.           14 yrs 
Connie G.         12                                                        
Celebrates whenever celebrant wants 

The
Came to Believe Group(?)
September
belated:   Lee M.   23 yrs 

The Fellow Travelers Group (?) - no response 

The Footprints in the Sand Group(?)
November

Don H.             26 yrs

Celebrates last Sunday of the month
 

The Guys and Dolls Group (5) no celebrants
Celebrates the last Saturday of the month

The Happy Wanderer's Group (19)

November                                December
Dani J              14 yrs              Forest G          23 yrs
Tom H             13 yrs                                                 
Bob H                3 yrs                                                 

Celebrates the last Tuesday of each month
.

The Fellow Travelers Group (?) - No response

The Footprints in the Sand Group(?)-No response


The Guys and Dolls Group (5)
no celebrants
Celebrates the last Saturday of the month.

 The Happy Wanderer's Group (19)September                               October
Liz W.              30 yrs.             Lee M.             23 yrs.
Sims C.           15 yrs.                                                   
Celebrates the last Tuesday of each month
.

                          

Interested in bringing a meeting to The Flagler Inmate Facility (The Jail)? Contact The Corrections Chairperson, Dutch Dewick 447-0543

Interested in bringing a meeting to the Stewart Marchman Rehab Center?  Please contact The Treatment Chairperson “Irish” Annie at 503-7981

The following is a transcript of the introduction to an 11th  step meeting held at St. Thomas Episcopal Church in late August. Joe C made the following remarks:

AA Step 11: Big Book
Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God, as we understood him, praying only for knowledge of his will for us and the power to carry that out.

Joe C
:
“When I receive help from God I can live my life one day at a time and handle whatever challenges, such as anger, that may come my way. Much of the trouble I tried to eliminate with anger and booze was based on my fear of being far less than I thought others expected of me. Fear, I have found, is the source of this anger which existed in my soul. I am still trying to eliminate this anger with God’s help and the steps of A.A. I have asked God to remove this anger as well as other shortcomings. Slowly, results are positive, as is the realization that my shortcomings are self-inflicted wounds. I must bear in mind that the spirit within me, which comes from God, is the healing force I can turn to.”

Living Sober
page 38

Anger in all its aspects is a universal human problem. But it poses a special threat to alcoholics. Our own anger can kill us. Alcoholics recognize that hostility, grudges, anger, and resentments often make us want to drink. We in AA have found that we need to guard against these feelings and drinking will not help us deal with them.

Joe C
:
 “I have found that through faith in God and the AA fellowship I had come to believe that this faith could and will eliminate fear and anger.

The Jumpstart Group (12)
November

Don O             4 yrs
Greg W           2 yrs

Usually celebrates on a Monday, but will adjust to celebration to celebrants availability.

The Life’s a Beach Group (?) no response
Celebrate last Sunday of the month
 

The Living Sober Group (22)

December
Arnold P          22 yrs
Betty D.           18 yrs

Celebrate last Saturday of the month
 
 

 The Lucky to be Here Group no response 

The Message Group (22)
November
                                December

Christen M      3 yrs                Stacy D           1 yr

Celebrate last Thursday of the month
.

The Mondex Group (14)
November
                                December

Bonnie               2 yrs              Jerry C           23 yrs
Kevin               20 yrs                                                
Celebrates as close to celebrants anniversary as possible Eating meeting is the last Tuesday of each month at 6 PM.  

The Nomad Group (20)
November
                                December

Kevin F.           20 yrs              Joe H.             27 yrs
Andy D.           9 yrs               Jerry C.           23 yrs
Jack W.           8 yrs               Jerry K.           14 yrs
Dave R.           7 yrs                                                  
Celebrates on the last Thursday of each month. 

The Steps to Serenity Group (13)

December

Debbie F          20 yrs

Celebrates last Friday of the month
 

The Survivors Group (37)-no response
Celebrates as close to celebrants date as possible
. 

The TGIF Group (46)
November
                         December

Lorraine S - 30 years                 Peg T - 18 years
 Mary McE - 24 year                   Jean M-S - 1 year
    Joyce W -      4 years                                                   

Celebrates the last Friday of each month. 

The Traditional Recovery Group(6)-no response
Celebrates the last Thursday of each month
The Women to Women Group (?) no response

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Came to Believe pages 4 and 97
(97) I believe we are all sober and alive today for only one reason: God as I understand him has a job for me to do. (4) I have come to believe that the gift of sobriety is what gives value and dignity to my life.

Joe C
:
“Fear and anger are being replaced by faith in God and the program of AA.. Thank you all for helping me to stay sober one day at a time.”
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TRADITION ELEVEN
Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion: we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio and films. 

By Bill W. (from the October 1948 Grapevine)


Providence has been looking after the public relations of Alcoholics Anonymous.  It can scarcely have been otherwise.  Though we are more than a dozen years old. Hardly a syllable of criticism or ridicule has ever been spoken of AA.  Somehow we have been spared all the pains of medical or religious controversy and we have good friends both wet and dry, right and left.  Like most societies, we are sometimes scandalous – but never yet in public.  From all over the world, naught comes but keen sympathy and downright admiration.  Our friends of the press and radio have outdone themselves.  Anyone can see that we are in a fair way to be spoiled.  Our reputation is already so much better than our actual character!  
         Surely these phenomenal blessings must have a deep purpose.  Who doubts that this purpose wishes to let every alcoholic in the world know that AA is truly for him, can he only want his liberation enough.  Hence, our messages through public channels have never been seriously discolored, nor has the searing breath of prejudice ever issued from anywhere. 

         Good public relations are AA lifelines reaching out to the alcoholic who still does not know us.  For years to come, our growth is sure to depend upon the strength and number of these lifelines.  One serious public relations calamity

Text Box: Record of HELPLINE calls stopped in December of '04(?). The following is a record of calls since June 5th 'thru August 17th '05.  
 AA        AA       ALANON      NA      OCOA
INFO     HELP       INFO        INFO     INFO
149          18             8            7           1
As a result of going to The InterGroup Mtg. I have a new HELPLINE volunteer who will relieve me after September. 
Peter F.
 
 


             could always turn thousands away from us to perish – a matter of life and death indeed!
            The future poses no greater problem or challenge to AA than how best to preserve a friendly and vital relation to all the world about us.  Success will rest heavily upon right principles, a wise vigilance, and the deepest personal responsibility on the part of every one of us.  Nothing less will do.  Else our brother may again turn his face to the wall because we did not care enough.
            So the Eleventh Tradition stands sentinel over the lifelines, announcing that there is no need to self-praise, that it is better to let our friends recommend us, and that our whole public relations policy, contrary to usual customs, should be based upon the principle of attraction rather than promotion.  Shot-in-the-arm methods are not for us – no press agents, no promotional devices, no big names.  The hazards are too great.  Immediate results will always be illusive because easy shortcuts to notoriety can generate permanent and smothering liabilities.
            More and more, therefore, we are emphasizing the principle of personal anonymity as it applies to our public relations.  We ask of each other the highest degree of personal responsibility in this respect.  As a movement we have been, before now, tempted to exploit the names of our well-known public characters.  We have rationalized that other societies, even the best, do the same.  As individuals we have sometimes believed that the public use of our names could demonstrate our personal courage in the face of stigma; so lending power and conviction to news stories and magazine articles.
            But these are not the allures they once were.  Vividly, we are becoming aware that no member ought to describe himself in full view of the general public as an AA, even for the most worthy purpose, lest a perilous precedent be set which would tempt others to do likewise for purposes not so worthy.
            We see that on breaking anonymity by press, radio, or pictures, any one of us could easily transfer the valuable name of Alcoholics Anonymous over onto any enterprise or into the midst of any controversy.
            So it is becoming our code that there are things that no AA ever does, lest he divert AA from it’s sole purpose and injure our public relations.  And thereby the chances of those sick ones yet to come.

          
         To the million alcoholics who have not yet heard our AA story, we should say, “Greetings and welcome.  Be assured that we shall never weaken the lifelines which we float out to you.  In our public relations, we shall, God willing, keep the faith”.

                  The Twelve Concepts (
Short Form)
          Concept 4:  Throughout our Conference structure, we ought to maintain at all responsible levels a traditional “Right of Participation”, taking care that each classification or group of our world servants shall be allowed a voting representation in reasonable proportion to the responsibility that each must discharge.                     
AA Service Manual – pg  

HELPLINE RECORD (Sept 1 through Oct. 15th)

AA    ALANON     NA      OCOA
INFO     HELP   INFO   INFO     INFO
55   9  4 4   1

Group Secretaries:    please contact
Contributing Editor, Peter Flaherty/446-8801  or temporary email address:  (breakthecycle@bellsouth.net); by the 15th of even months, to insure your group's celebrants are mentioned in The Promises. If you haven't done so, please include the day/night your group celebrates anniversaries & how many members are in your group at the moment. Reminder: as to keep conformity, all celebrant info goes to Peter F.
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Please have any and all announcements, articles, personal stories, etc.  into Sally by December 15, 2005 to be included in the January/February printing. 

Who’s in the best AA group in Flagler County?  And why is it the best group?

Tell me and I will print your opinions in the next newsletter for Jan/Feb.

Promises Editor:  Sally S.  email: bikersal@cfl.rr.com

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