The3rd
Quarter WORKSHOP was a
HUGE success with over 50 people attending. Thanx to The Women to Women
Group for hosting & Tom "G" for facilitating on "The Basics, Steps
1,2,3".
SUPPORT: The Grapevine Meeting Tuesday
nite at Beverly Beach can use some support. Check it out!!!
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A
New Beginning
Group(18)
November
December
Bob R 2 yrs Allen
G 2 yrs
Celebrate last Friday of the month
The
Bunnell
Group(?)
October
belated:
Kevin 1 year
November
December
Jack W. 8 yrs Jerry
K. 14 yrs
Connie G. 12
Celebrates whenever celebrant wants
The
Came
to Believe
Group(?)
September
belated:
Lee M. 23 yrs
The
Fellow Travelers Group (?) -
no
response
The Footprints in the Sand Group(?)
November
Don H. 26 yrs
Celebrates last Sunday of the month
The Guys and Dolls Group (5)
–
no
celebrants
Celebrates the last Saturday of the month.
The
Happy Wanderer's Group (19)
November
December
Dani J 14 yrs Forest
G 23 yrs
Tom H 13 yrs
Bob H 3 yrs
Celebrates the last Tuesday of each month.
The
Fellow Travelers Group (?) -
No response
The
Footprints in the Sand Group(?)-No response
The Guys and Dolls Group (5)
–
no
celebrants
Celebrates the last
Saturday of the month.
The
Happy Wanderer's Group (19)September
October
Liz W. 30 yrs. Lee
M. 23 yrs.
Sims
C. 15 yrs.
Celebrates the last
Tuesday of each month. |
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Interested
in bringing a meeting to The Flagler Inmate Facility (The
Jail)? Contact The Corrections Chairperson, Dutch Dewick 447-0543.
Interested
in bringing a meeting to the Stewart Marchman Rehab Center? Please
contact The Treatment Chairperson “Irish” Annie at 503-7981
The following is a transcript of the introduction to an 11th
step meeting held at St. Thomas Episcopal Church in late August. Joe C
made the following remarks:
AA Step 11: Big
Book
Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact
with God, as we understood him, praying only for knowledge of his will
for us and the power to carry that out.
Joe C:
“When I receive help from God I can live my life one day at a time and
handle whatever challenges, such as anger, that may come my way. Much of
the trouble I tried to eliminate with anger and booze was based on my
fear of being far less than I thought others expected of me. Fear, I
have found, is the source of this anger which existed in my soul. I am
still trying to eliminate this anger with God’s help and the steps of
A.A. I have asked God to remove this anger as well as other
shortcomings. Slowly, results are positive, as is the realization that
my shortcomings are self-inflicted wounds. I must bear in mind that the
spirit within me, which comes from God, is the healing force I can turn
to.”
Living Sober page 38
Anger in all its aspects is a universal human problem. But it poses a
special threat to alcoholics. Our own anger can kill us. Alcoholics
recognize that hostility, grudges, anger, and resentments often make us
want to drink. We in AA have found that we need to guard against these
feelings and drinking will not help us deal with them.
Joe C:
“I have found that through faith in God and the AA fellowship I had
come to believe that this faith could and will eliminate fear and anger. |
The
Jumpstart Group (12)
November
Don O 4 yrs
Greg W 2 yrs
Usually celebrates on a Monday, but will adjust to celebration to
celebrants availability.
The
Life’s a Beach Group (?)
–
no response
Celebrate last Sunday of the month
The Living Sober Group (22)
December
Arnold
P 22 yrs
Betty D. 18 yrs
Celebrate last Saturday of the month
The
Lucky to be Here Group
–
no response
The
Message Group (22)
November
December
Christen M 3 yrs Stacy D 1 yr
Celebrate last Thursday of the month.
The
Mondex Group (14)
November
December
Bonnie 2 yrs
Jerry C 23 yrs
Kevin 20 yrs
Celebrates as close to celebrants anniversary as possible
Eating meeting is the last Tuesday of each month at 6 PM.
The
Nomad
Group (20)
November
December
Kevin F. 20 yrs Joe H. 27 yrs
Andy D. 9 yrs Jerry C. 23 yrs
Jack W. 8 yrs Jerry K. 14 yrs
Dave R. 7 yrs
Celebrates on the last
Thursday of each month.
The Steps to Serenity Group (13)
December
Debbie F 20 yrs
Celebrates last Friday of the month
The Survivors
Group (37)-no response
Celebrates as close to celebrants date as possible.
The
TGIF Group (46)
November
December
Lorraine S - 30
years Peg T - 18
years
Mary McE - 24 year
Jean M-S - 1 year
Joyce W - 4 years
Celebrates the last Friday of each
month.
The
Traditional Recovery Group(6)-no response
Celebrates the last Thursday of each month
The Women to Women Group (?)
– no
response
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Came to Believe
pages 4 and 97
(97) I believe we are all sober and alive today for only one
reason: God as I understand him has a job for me to do. (4) I
have come to believe that the gift of sobriety is what gives value and
dignity to my life.
Joe C:
“Fear and anger are being replaced by faith in God and the
program of AA.. Thank you all for helping me to stay sober one day at a
time.”
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TRADITION ELEVEN
Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather
than promotion: we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level
of press, radio and films.
By Bill W. (from the October 1948 Grapevine)
Providence has been looking after the public relations of Alcoholics
Anonymous. It can scarcely have been otherwise. Though we are more
than a dozen years old. Hardly a syllable of criticism or ridicule has
ever been spoken of AA. Somehow we have been spared all the pains of
medical or religious controversy and we have good friends both wet and
dry, right and left. Like most societies, we are sometimes scandalous –
but never yet in public. From all over the world, naught comes but keen
sympathy and downright admiration. Our friends of the press and radio
have outdone themselves. Anyone can see that we are in a fair way to be
spoiled. Our reputation is already so much better than our actual
character!
Surely these phenomenal
blessings must have a deep purpose. Who doubts that this purpose wishes
to let every alcoholic in the world know that AA is truly for him, can
he only want his liberation enough. Hence, our messages through public
channels have never been seriously discolored, nor has the searing
breath of prejudice ever issued from anywhere.
Good public relations are AA
lifelines reaching out to the alcoholic who still does not know us. For
years to come, our growth is sure to depend upon the strength and number
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could
always turn thousands away from us to perish – a matter of life and
death indeed!
The future poses no greater problem or challenge to AA
than how best to preserve a friendly and vital relation to all the
world about us. Success will rest heavily upon right principles, a
wise vigilance, and the deepest personal responsibility on the part
of every one of us. Nothing less will do. Else our brother may
again turn his face to the wall because we did not care enough.
So the Eleventh Tradition stands sentinel over the
lifelines, announcing that there is no need to self-praise, that it
is better to let our friends recommend us, and that our whole public
relations policy, contrary to usual customs, should be based upon
the principle of attraction rather than promotion.
Shot-in-the-arm methods are not for us – no press agents, no
promotional devices, no big names. The hazards are too great.
Immediate results will always be illusive because easy shortcuts to
notoriety can generate permanent and smothering liabilities.
More and more, therefore, we are emphasizing the
principle of personal anonymity as it applies to our public
relations. We ask of each other the highest degree of personal
responsibility in this respect. As a movement we have been, before
now, tempted to exploit the names of our well-known public
characters. We have rationalized that other societies, even the
best, do the same. As individuals we have sometimes believed that
the public use of our names could demonstrate our personal courage
in the face of stigma; so lending power and conviction to news
stories and magazine articles.
But these are not the allures they once were. Vividly,
we are becoming aware that no member ought to describe himself in
full view of the general public as an AA, even for the most worthy
purpose, lest a perilous precedent be set which would tempt others
to do likewise for purposes not so worthy.
We see that
on breaking anonymity by press, radio, or pictures, any one of us
could easily transfer the valuable name of Alcoholics Anonymous over
onto any enterprise or into the midst of any controversy.
So it is
becoming our code that there are things that no AA ever does, lest
he divert AA from it’s sole purpose and injure our public
relations. And thereby the chances of those sick ones yet to come.
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To the million alcoholics who
have not yet heard our AA story, we should say, “Greetings and welcome.
Be assured that we shall never weaken the lifelines which we float out
to you. In our public relations, we shall, God willing, keep the
faith”.
The Twelve Concepts (Short
Form)
Concept 4: Throughout
our Conference structure, we ought to maintain at all responsible levels
a traditional “Right of Participation”, taking care that each
classification or group of our world servants shall be allowed a voting
representation in reasonable proportion to the responsibility that each
must discharge.
AA Service
Manual – pg
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Group Secretaries:
please contact
Contributing Editor, Peter Flaherty/446-8801 or temporary email
address: (breakthecycle@bellsouth.net);
by the 15th of even months, to insure your group's celebrants are
mentioned in The Promises. If you haven't done so, please include the
day/night your group celebrates anniversaries & how many members are in
your group at the moment. Reminder: as to keep conformity, all
celebrant info goes to Peter F.
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Please have any and all announcements, articles, personal
stories, etc. into Sally by December 15, 2005 to be included in the
January/February printing.
Who’s in the best AA group in Flagler County? And why is it the best
group?
Tell me and I will print your opinions in the next newsletter for
Jan/Feb.
Promises Editor:
Sally S. email:
bikersal@cfl.rr.com |